oh, I was going to mention about trying to turn the baby... On one of those links I posted, I read that sometimes there might be a reason why the baby is positioned as she is, if she won't move around.

Glad to hear you were able to handle that good moment, as just as it was. It IS hard to do, but you did it, and it's nice to just live in that good moment.

Just keep being constant, and I really believe your H will be less of the 90% and more of the 10%.

and good job validating his brokeness. You can always encourage too like, "I'm sure you'll figure something out, your a smart guy" or whatever is appropriate.

If YOUR building him up, as opposed to OW who you know is eventually getting tired of his butt- will be complaining about him and AT him, then YOU will be the one he will rather be in company with.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."