Odd that we are so comfortable in the same room, but I am. I could sleep in the same bed with him and be fine. I have come a long way with detachment. Long way.
The atty talked about how she charges 1/4 of the price of a regular divorce (when someone hires her individually), but sometimes she wants to charge $1000's of dollars for mediation because its actually much harder to work with both people when there is conflict.
I don't want conflict with H.
I want peace.
Getting along with H brings me peace. Getting along with him as my xH will also bring me peace.
Thinking of my future and knowing I'll be ok with or without him brings me peace.
My girls happiness brings me peace, and us getting through this with no scars is most beneficial to them.
