Reading what everyone has said today as brought tears to my eyes, especially you FG!! I couldn't ask for better people to help me through this time. I wish you were all here with me and I could take you all out to eat. It has been such a sad day for me. I am now doing pitch black dark and it scares me. The reason why I married my H was because I couldn't picture my life without him in it. Now I am faced with the reality that is exactly what is happening. Although I still hope that we can remain friends after the divorce.
Wanna hear some good news? There is a guy that I have been chatting with online for the past few weeks. When I first started chatting with him, he had told me that his wife had cheated on him and they were seperated. Well tonight he has told me that they are working things out and she has moved back in. He is going to give her another chance and not divorce because he loves her. And while secretly, I was thinking of things working out down the road between me and this man (he lives here locally)...you know the notion of 2 cheated on people making things work (because this guy is so good looking!) I am honestly happy for him and his wife! At least there is happiness for some in this crazy world.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08