Expect that kind of stuff. Expect the worst and work on letting it go.

You are too worthwhile, you are valuable, you have good qualities and you deserve to be with someone who appreciates that. If she can't appreciate you and love you, then it's her loss. We can't force people to love us and choose us. I know it's hard not to take that personal and feel like a loser. But the real loser is the person who can't appreciate what they have. Hopefully she'll wake up, but if she doesn't you can know you did your best and your life will still be good. Cry a little, then go out and do something for YOU.

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.