The sex starved marriage MAY help...but whatdidido..why does it have to be sex? What is wrong wiht some foreplay? Behave like young teenagers dating...don't just JUMP into BED..why ruin it?
Enjoy the romance...don't hurry it...there are ways to please your man while NOT having sex...he just wants to feel like you feel like he's handsome. He doesn't have to have sex...there's a feeling he's after...just touch him so he feels like you are there with him and help him feel sexy.
It is important htough, if yo are not ready and he is, to write him a VERY tender letter asking him not to hurry you. Let him know this is like dating again and you are enjoying the fun of it all...let him know he is sexy...SHOW him he is...and end hte letter telling him how attractive he is and how much you love him.
honestly this will HELP him and reduce your stress...and the writing this letter may just invite some imagination to take flight in your mind for him ...
Touch him, pet him...kiss him...help him feel sexy again...he feels tossed aside like a spare tire...if you just ignore him and reject him he will be devastated.
Sex is not that hard, but you have to TALK...in a letter or somehow let HIM know how YOU are feeling and HE needs to let you know how HE is feelig. I can help you understnad how he is...but you need to communicate to him ok?
just please him like any man you have been dating for a while ok? He will be happy with that.
