Ms. Ladybug. I haven't posted to you before, but I think we live in the same area. I can't remember your entire sitch, but thought your h might be a little scary. Of course, I'm only "hearing" your side of the story... Anyway, the point of my post is to ask how long you have been working on the changes that your husband is asking you to make? Has it only been a few months? Maybe your husband just needs more time to SEE the changes are permanent. I'll have to refresh my memory and re-read your thread, but just thought I'd throw my very measly $0.02 at it. It breaks my heart to see families torn apart when it's not necessary.
Hang in there, ladybug.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence