I'm sorry I didn't see your thread sooner. My husband and I went to Retrouvaille about 1 1/2 years ago and had a life changing experience there. It was without a doubt the best thing we ever did together. I do recommend Retrouvaille to everyone who has a spouse willing to go and make some effort. Even a small willingness is enough. The communication skills they teach there will improve your relationship no matter what you decide to do in the future. If you think your wife will go with you to Retrouvaille, do not hesitate to reserve your spot.