FG!!! You ROCK!!!! Thanks for checking on me \:\) If I could have a bumper sticker attatched to my thread, it would say "I've been gumped!" LOL!!!

So here's the skinny.... Just had a session with DB coach...she encouraged me to send an apology to H's family....I had told her in our conversation I had felt bad for some of things I had said and done....but was waiting for things to get a little better between the H and I before apologizing. She thought it would make it look I was doing it for him, if I waited...so I am going to work on putting something together over the next couple of days...new goal!!

She also thinks he is getting curious....told a mutual friend that I was "ignoring him"....she felt like me stepping back was getting his attention. I used to chase, beg, plead...she said that was encouraging his negative behaviors....no more of dat!!

So Saturday will be two weeks no contact...we shall see where it goes!!

hugs 2 all
Christa

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"