Real live is....part 4!

[Rob1231]

Sara, you did exactly what you needed to do. Bravo for changing your number - you stuck up for yourself in a way that helped you feel better, and that's so very important.

Your story isn't over, so don't assume that starting the paperwork means The End Of It All. It's one step along the way, and your H has the same option today that he had yesterday - to pull his head out of his rear and shape up. And you have the same options too - to wait and hope, or to decide enough is enough.

I sincerely hope that the tough love approach shakes him up, and he gets his act together - but in any case, you are taking back some control of your life after having him in the driver seat for way too long. Be proud of that!

Many hugs!