Separate or Not Separate?

[Barbara66]

Thanks Runningout of time. I appreciate your take on the situation. I am not ready for D. I thought that maybe a LS would snap him back to reality, but did think about the fact that perhaps it would backfire and he would be relieved. That is, afterall, what he told me that he wants.

I am just afraid that if I don't file first, that I am at a disadvantage in setting terms.