Okay, let me say that I value all of your advice so much. I went ahead and changed it. That will give me a peace of mind that the OW can't contact me. But it makes me sad that H can't contact me. No more middle of the next tms. I guess I can cancel the tm feature since he was the only one I used it with.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08