I told my wife not to sell me short, that it wasn't up to her to determine what I could and could not forgive. That I was a better and stronger person than she realized, that I was a better and stronger person than anyone she had ever known. It was not her place to tell me what I could or could not do, but if that was the excuse she needed to not try and reconcile, then she could use it as long as she realized it was her failing.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet