Surely I did something wrong, but I am not finding it.
Not necessarily true -- at all.
Did Jesus do "something wrong" when Judas betrayed him? I'm not saying you're a saint, Starshyne, but I am saying that wayward behavior can have little -- or even NOTHING -- to do at all with the betrayed spouse.
Your husband may just be morally weak. It happens. It SUKKS, but it happens.
