Thanks Jack,

That was a good kick in the pants I needed. H says I need to start focusing on us because that is all that matters and he is right. H is humble and regrets his mistakes and I thought I did forgive him but you have a point I need to stop bring it up it only hurts us both. I wish this was his one big F up but sorry to say its not.


M 45
H 42

D 26
D 18
S 16

Married 19 years
Together 24 years
ILYBNILWY 1/7/08
OW 10/11/07
ended affair 3/14/08
came home 3/14/08
last contacted ow 3/17/08
4/19/08 trying to piece marriage back.