by the way my therapist told me that, I have more reasons to stay and work through this instead of leave. He said he thinks I'm doing the right thing, and it takes a man to really sit down and want to work through things. He said if I wasnt true to her there is no way he could see me going through this. He said alot of men run, and want to be free form this but he said it will be the same situation down the line so what do you do, keep running. He said I'm doing the right thing, and he said be open when I see her therapist, and tell her what my wife and marriage means to me.