Ok..I heard pretty much the same stuff you are hearing...he was done...he wasn't going to work anymore...he had been working so hard on the marriage for X amount of years he had no work left...he just wanted to be happy...I was controling...unloving...uncaring...only thought of myself...you name it he said it...
In the end though he had to admit that I wasn't all of those things...yes, I had faults but I also loved him like he knew deep inside no one else could...
I remember the darkness too...I remember the sadness...just wanting to know why...just wanting a chance to prove myself a better person...it really really does get better...it gets better by you really working on things within yourself...knowing you can better yourself and working to that goal...for YOU...having others notice how nice you are...caring you are...all because you have stopped focusing on just one person...H...focus on your children, friends, family...
OH...and really it does no good to tell HIS family and friends because he will convince them otherwise...he will paint you so badly that they will tell him he had a right to find his happiness....I went through that too...it NEVER works out for you....
I am a survivor...and a buster...still married and very very happy again!
