Yeah her therapist, but the thing is the information I receive from her from going to therapy, is that her therapist is telling her to do what she needs to do to break the cycle of her parents divorce. She says her therapist is telling her that there is an answer to our problems. Which I was surprised to hear because what I have read that therapist look out for their patients. But this one is telling my wife that she needs to put the work in to stay married and work through the issues. Ijjst left my therapist and he gave me some plans to talk about. First he told me to ask, what is my reasoning for being here. Then he said just open up and tell how much you care and love your wife. And he said when the therapist hears that, and she knows there isnt any abuse going on she is going to continue to guide her, to stay in the marriage and work things out. But we will see, that is this coming Tuesday.