I remember going on a family holiday, right after he got his tatoo (hint, hint) and he said to me then...."You know, if we ever get divorced, I would still like to go on family holidays together.." I wondered a LONG time, WHY he said that to me then, as nothing was really wrong at the time...(to me anyway..)
I do agree with Jack, that maybe at the time I would not have been sensitive enough to listen and learn. The bomb caused the change and the WILL to do so !
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus