I saw it was in the middle of all the quotes after I replied. It's there. But I agree. Well, maybe not with my WW sitting alone in a bar cause we KNOW that wouldn't be good for me!

And yes Kat, I'm going out with or without her. I've been doing this for quite a while. It gives me a needed break and I think it makes her miss me/realize I have a life.

I just don't understand why she won't do something like this with me. Unless it's like I said, she can't bring herself to go with me because she know's she'd have fun and if that's the case, the affair would be a waste and she's not ready to admit that to herself yet.

But it's coming.....


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.