Like I said the cermonies are always boring....my mom's side of the family all has loooooooong Catholic ceremonies....followed by receptions with open bars. We've gotten banned from a few places after family weddings.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
A lot more to come Lisa (weddings), a lot more to come... It would have been akward under current circumstances. Think about it. I always remember our wedding when I go to one. I would be dreading going to one with H at the moment.
Thanks guys ((((hugs)))). K- I know what you mean- I'm depressed even thinking about the wedding, so can't imagine how it'd be to go to one at the moment.
H replied to my text:
Hi OD. Thanks for the text- I appreciate it. I'll pass on your congratulations to them both. Hope you're having an OK day. Enjoyed the Apprentice last night but a bit of a wierd 4 in thee final. Have a good time at drinks tomorrow. Love H xx
It doesn't really invite a reply, so I guess I should leave it. On the other hand, he does say he hopes my day is going OK, so I wonder if I should reply. I have no idea.
It's funny isn't it? I felt pretty confident in how to behave until Full on Friday, and now it seems as though we're both being very wary around each other. H has definitely withdrawn; although he's in touch the tone is quite different from before last Friday. Two weddings in two days has got to be a bit sressful when you're a WAS though, I guess. Obviously I should try not to panic and just leave him to it. Maybe then I'll get the same results as Ali!
You knew he'd pull back, right? And with the weddings besides, it is really not at all surpriseing. I think this would be a good time to leave him alone, and make sure he isn't feeling any pressure from you.
You're right, Jeff- I did know he'd pull back, and I was even getting worried this week that he was making too much of an effort to be in touch. If he's in withdrawal, I'd like him to really be in it so he won't end up going back into replay. (Selfish?)
I'll leave it with the text. How am I ever going to repay all your good advice?!
