For the Guy with Kids and a WW4

[kat727]

I remember in the first few months after I found out about OW, I would get upset to the point of tears. I would see my kids and even ask them after I calmed down, do you really want me to keep fighting for us. Of course, we all wanted our family together except H. No he wasn't in the discussion. I just wanted the kids to know that I would do whatever I could to keep us a whole family.

Remember this was before I even got here...way before. Do I still want to keep my family whole? Yes. Have I? Not really, but I have done everything in my power to make sure that my kids know that I am not going anywhere, I love them with all of my being and I will continue to do so. I do remind them that Daddy does love them or gently nudge them trying to get them to call him to wish Daddy goodnight. H just pops in now and again. We have created a new family and sadly, H chose not to be in it. Perhaps one day.

Anyway the point is to build your bonds strong so that no matter what does happen, your children will never have a doubt where they fit in your life. It is clear that they mean the world to you.

kat