Thanks guys ((((hugs)))). K- I know what you mean- I'm depressed even thinking about the wedding, so can't imagine how it'd be to go to one at the moment.

H replied to my text:

Hi OD. Thanks for the text- I appreciate it. I'll pass on your congratulations to them both. Hope you're having an OK day. Enjoyed the Apprentice last night but a bit of a wierd 4 in thee final. Have a good time at drinks tomorrow. Love H xx

It doesn't really invite a reply, so I guess I should leave it. On the other hand, he does say he hopes my day is going OK, so I wonder if I should reply. I have no idea.

It's funny isn't it? I felt pretty confident in how to behave until Full on Friday, and now it seems as though we're both being very wary around each other. H has definitely withdrawn; although he's in touch the tone is quite different from before last Friday. Two weddings in two days has got to be a bit sressful when you're a WAS though, I guess. Obviously I should try not to panic and just leave him to it. ;\) Maybe then I'll get the same results as Ali!