There is a time for "going dark", and a time for allowing things to open up.
You havent written anything for 4 months. you should probably give more details on how things are now, before people can give you the best advice for your specific situation.
"going dark" is not a magical, "fix all situations" solution. Sometimes, it is the exact wrong thing to do.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
