Confused,

It is her therapist. Not yours, not a marriage councilor. Her therapist is going to be looking out for her best interests and sadly not always is that to stay married.

Think long and hard about this. Don't defend yourself. This isn't a battle and you are NOT going to be getting any information out of her therapist. You will look soooo much better to her therapist if you are loving and kind. Not defensive and prying.

I hate to say that this whole BS situations we have found ourselves in is a f-ing game, but you should be playing to win not to fail. So plan accordingly. Or rather plot accordingly.
Pick your battles, and win the war.

Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 06/05/08 04:09 PM.

Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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