small victory for the good guys. The digicam we owned "dissapeared" one day, I knew exactly where it was and I told stbx to tell me before he took stuff, of course he gave me the "I dont' know what you are talking about" and "I don't know". I kept my cool and reminded him that the camera was mine per our agreement. Lo and behold! he brought it here, I made sure I sent friendly reminders every day by txt. I 'm hiding that thing now. Dork. His car was cleaned, no uniform for work and he lives so far, prob his stuff is at ow's (she lives close by the area I work, bleah). Whatever, I don't care and dont' want to care ever again.
I had to ask him, if ow was moving in since I did bring it up during mediation that neither of us would have an overnight visitor before the D. He actually surprised me with "no! I need someone who can actually pay" (ow is in the red and bad with $)
Still, Im trying to make peace that he might do that, even as he buys a place .5mile from me, dont' know how their R will go on since kids will be there with him and it is pretty far from where she lives...then again, anything can happen. A small thread in my mind still is happier knowing she'll be farther away... for now.
Anyways, that stuff doesn't occupy the space it used to hoard in my head, thank God for that
Will be a scorcher tomorrow, darn, had to modify my plans. S10's bday is indoors thank heavens, still, not nice to drive 30min in 99 degree weather for my guests, oh well, they'll get to shop the outlets
Have a great weekend everyone)))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
Cat, I am glad that you got your digicam back and glad to see that you are still keeping proper perspective through everything. I just wanted to peer in for awhile and I hope your weekend goes well...peace
