Seems like your friend's H was trying to tell her something...I hate it when they just don't come out and say it...seems like going about things in a roundabout way got me here in the first place!
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller