My W and I had our anniversary about a month ago on the eve of our separation (we were selling the house and going separate ways). I made reservations at a nice restaurant. At first she was against it....she said I don't want to go out and celabrate this. I said who said anything about celabrating, i just figured we would go out and enjoy ourselves....have a little break. Of course R talks are completely out (I got a penalty for this). But the dinner turned out pretty nice and we almost went out afterwards as well (she changed her mind and said she was tired). I would make it like a friend date.
Maybe ask her to go see Sex and the City or something like that if she is into it. I don't think I would ignore it at all, especially if you are communicating and enjoying each others company. Just take it slow and if she rejects it then brush it off and just say something like, I just thought it would be fun to go out, im cool either way.
That is what I did and she changed her mind
Best wishes
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
