Not being able to control one's spouse doesn't make one weak. Everything she does is not a reflection on me. I certainly am frustrated. I try to know when it's time to stand my ground, and when there are things beyond my control.[quote]
CL,
In all reality no one person should be trying to control another, only ourselves.
You are right in what you posted about the "alpha male" in my OP. We all have our own opinons and this is a good example. I wonder if the junior member read trough your thread to really know what is going on. I do however welcome any one who posts, they may not totally understand the sitch but, want to try and help in their own way. It is nice as long as they are suggestions, without trying to tell us what we absolutely should be doing, as there is no one perfect answer.
We are all individuls with different thoughts and needs.
Do you understand what Im'e trying to say?
Thinking of you.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
