jonzy, sorry man just kinda been floating....been in my own 'fog' for a few days.
"She told me that it was her and that she wanted to get a little. I never responded to that."
This is always a TOUGH sitch, to be a 'booty call' or not to be a 'booty call' some would say if you realize that's all it would be well then why not? Depends on where you are at. IMHO I think Tink is spot on DON'T! Your sitch is to upside down, with her being in and then out of it. Stay status quo semi-dark. I would say something like, I would like that also but I am just not in a place where I can deal with that right now, or that would be nice but I don't want to give you the wrong impression that it's okay... use your own words I think you will know what to say.
No this is no sign right now she doesn't know what she wants, that is part of the rollercoaster my friend don't buy a ticket. It's a cheeseless tunnel you have a right to your feelings and right now they have to come first IMO it will just hurt you more.
Stay the path keep working on yourself, you have some good GAL plans going on that's great. She is noticing things stay the strong man that you are becoming she will flip flop back and forth so expect it and be ready in your mind how to handle it stay sharp you have to be on your game, don't let her suck you into the drama.
You have been getting some good advice from the others follow it fit it into your sitch and use it to your advantage. Be nice to her care as a friend would. Remember it's not about being mean to her it's about helping yourself to be better, don't do things out of bitterness take the higher road. You are starting to detach some and that is the key, don't 'react' but 'act' of your own accord don't let her bait you into a response that will fuel her reasoning.
By the way I live in Lincoln, so howdy old neighbor.
Stay the path, work on you, remember at this point you're a father and a friend unfortunately not a husband ya feel me?
