I know what you mean about it seeming like pressure- it's a tricky decision isn't it? I'm looking at my ring and wondering whether I should have it on, but H has always seen me with it on (apart from when he first moved out, when I removed it in desolation- put it back on after a couple of weeks, and then one other time- about 3 months ago). Apart from that, as far as he knows, I always wear it, so I might aswell always wear it anyway.
I wish he'd put his back on though- that'd be huge for me, if he did, but I guess there's no chance at least until the vegetable is off the scene.
Jack- hello! Always a pleasure, never a chore!! It's great to see you.
Feeling a little subdued today. CEO's asked me twice if I'm OK. I guess I just feel a bit sad thinking about missing the wedding tomorrow. I sent H a text this morning to say that I hope he has a good time and I bet the bride and groom can't wait. No reply, but I don't expect one; he's probably really busy.