H is having affair after all - part 3

[Jen_Jam]

I feel sorry for your H. From where I am standing it looks as if he is blaming YOU for just about everything. When he married you he KNEW you had 2 d's and they have a dad. Sorry but you didn't fool him.

He's saying it takes two but he doesn't seem to believe that. He is in full on alien mode.

Eve you've got a big job on your hands with that alien. I think you're doing well. You are standing up for yourself without getting angry. That IS hard to do and I admire you for managing it.

Your H will need to beam back down to earth but you can't control how and when he does that. Remember that, it's not your fault he's like this, you didn't MAKE him do or not do anything. If I were in your shoes I would have a first goal of maintaining a friendship with H, but I know from experience having a friendship with an alien can be so hard. There are things I say now that if I said when H was in alien mode it would spark off a full scale riot. Eggshells puts it mildly!

I hope you feel a bit better as the day goes on. I'll try and drop you a mail later if work isn't too manic. In the meantime, take care of your lovely self (((((Eve)))))