Amy....I don't think you DID hand it to him on a silver platter the way you described it.............I can't retrace it right now...but that is not the feeling I had from you post.
He probably isn't going to charge back after you.
But if you asked him what he really wanted....I don't think it would be to end it.
SG perhaps I'm just dense today but what the heck are you saying to me?
I'm losing my powers, I guess....
perhaps I'll be more clear tomorrow.....I mean I agree with Jack and Jeff.
Which means you handed it to him on a silver platter, but he doesn't know it!