Mike I do worry hate to see people in pain guess that's just my sappy side, be well brother I to am here for you.
Quick update....
Having some VERY severe weather here in Nebraska, tornados, hail, 60-70 mile an hour wind, so who does W call (she hates this kind of weather),ME totally in tears, just terrified the sirens were going off she was tweeking, so I got her calmed down told her to go to her basement or a interior wall perferably the stairway wall going downstairs. I reassured her she would be fine, told her to get a blanket to protect herself with, the kids weren't home so she was really freaking out. As much as I wanted to tell her I loved her I didn't just told her I am here for you and I am there in spirit.
She called me back 20 minutes later and asked if it was safe to come out, I said was about to call you and tell you it was okay.
Hard not to persue in that sitch but I think I handled it okay?