When they do ugly things, you start to expect it from them. The more they do it, the more you expect it.
Until you get to a point that is what you expect from them 100% of the time, and when you dont get that from them, you are suspicious.
That makes sense...
I really doubt that he's in agony over this... really. I just have a real hard time believing that. This is why. I know his schedule. He'll go to work. He'll come home. On Tues, Thurs and Fri, he'll take his son to martial arts, then have his own class. Go home, go to bed.
On Mon, Wed, he'll go to work, come home, and it's off to soccer practice where he's a coach. On Saturday and Sunday, he'll be focused on his daughter, and taking her to dance class, doing things with her, etc. as well as soccer practice. His mind is wrapped up in all the activities that are/were planned. His life right now is literally absorbed in his children (which was the case before I left too, btw). And with this latest event... me leaving... his drive will compound, which validates his need that his children are his top priority. He will be too busy to think about anything else. Basically... he has GAL... I don't.
