I think she wants to be friends

[sleeper]

Thanks Grace,

My original plan was to wait her out on her mlc. At this moment I'm not even sure anymore if she is in mlc. Many have commented how unusual our sitch has been and at the same time noted many "positives" and observed that she "wasn't done" with me.

She doesn't want to let me go completely. It could be as simple as major cake eating on her part. I still do a lot for her. I love her and damnit (here's the hard part) she still loves me. she told kids on vacation I am her "best friend" (major double edged sword).

I've gotta cut her off, medical problems or not.

I have decided to tell her not to try to use my insurance.
I'm going to tell her what I will accept as far as FS (we're not far apart).
I'm going to enlighten her to the fact that "her" commercial property was bought as Sheriff's sale and she can figure out how to deal with it (I was going to take care of it ).