H knows what is expected of him...we have been over it so many times (or so it seems). He knows that the main thing is to end all contact with the OW and never see her ever again. That is the biggest hurdle. I think the reason it didnt work the first time around was because he wasn't the one to break it off, she was.

Anyhow...I had a nice evening tonight. I went out to dinner with my cousin. She is 10 years younger than me but we have a lot in common and have always been close. What I totally loved about her tonight was that I know she is aware of my sitch, but she didn't mention it at all. Not even one time. I actually wasn't thinking about my H and my problems...I had an enjoyable time. So much so that we agreed to make Wednesday nights our nights while she is home from college!

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08