Do you think it is possible you have this crush because you don't have what you want? I know when I can't have something I want from my W, I want it that much more. I've actually been trying to think of positive ways to want my W to want me more (leaving them wanting more).
You could use that to yours and your R's advantage!!! Leave her wanting more more more, just like she does to you
Me: 30 W: 27 Married: 9/2007 ILUBNILWU: 1/2008 W moved out 5/24/2008 W suicide 8/25/2009