Help me, I'm so hurt.

[jandn]

I dont know how religious you are, if any but lastnight attended a DivorceCare support group (like my 3rd or 4th week). They were on the chapter of "Forgiveness". No matter how much you dont want to forgive wife, you need to try and forgive so it helps stop the angry you feel from her. Please quite blaming yourself, you both are responsibliy for you own actions. I'm not very religious myself, but since I have been going through this, I am trying to find where I stand spiritually. Forgiveness is a process.

We watch a video for about 30 minutes, then the instructor goes over stuff he has experienced and makes his comments. I wish W would go to one or start attending church regularly like she so wanted to during the M but never really made it priority. Now it feels to late, but hopefully its what helps me get through and maybe bring W back to the family.