Yes, I am in total agreement with you. But there's one problem... he's not here to read this, it's me. It's like, yes, I'm nodding my head to everything you're saying. Yes, I can see this, you can see this, we are in agreement, but...
How do you get someone who is so blinded by their own ego to see it?
Patience, patience, patiences, that's all I've got, right?
But thats the thing. It is POSSIBLE. It CAN happen!! Will it? Thats up to him. But its inside him..you know it, and I know it.
How to get him to see it? Who knows. You say you havent spoken with him in 3 weeks?? So no idea exactly where he is at. Can speculate over past behavior.
But personally, I am tired of being compared against my former self and assume I am the same guy. I am not.
He may not be either.
But I still 100% understand your reluctance to cave in and be the 1st to make contact. He very well might be waiting for that with the same BS as before.
Last edited by EnergyAZ; 06/04/0811:49 PM.
Me: 37 Wife: 40 Son: 7yo Son: 18 mo Bomb: 12/31/07 Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now
