Supermom and the Brighter Tomorrow

[JennyF]

Thanks everyone for checking in....

Jenny, your H is going to wake up one day, look at that hungover winch next to him in bed, walk into the bathroom and look at himself in the mirror and say "what have I done?".

LOL....thanks for the laugh Kerry!

Ellie...I have the financial doc's being sorted out with the L's to do that dividing up properly. I think it will shake out that no euqalization pmt will be necessary...so that would just leave the house. If there is 'little' equity, I expect him to sign it over no questions asked. There are many reasons why this is fair and he knows it. After I talked with him today that seemed like a possibility.

girlfromipomena...you're always so complimentary to me! Thank you!

Blindsided...I read on your thread about your C-section date. How about change scary to exciting!! I know you're nervous, trust me all will be ok. You will be ok.


Sooooooo, H came to pick up S today and we had a little chat first about the house and it sounds like he may be interested in signing the title over to me to avoid either of us losing $$. Plus he knows it would be good for D to stay here during this crazy time.
But the conversation went bad as I addressed D's behaviour yesterday when she didn't want to go to his house. He down played it again and played it all off. Long story short, we got into an argument about how I was not happy with the kids being there and it was wrong wrong wrong. By the end of it he was really pissed off at me. I mean mad. But I don't care, I'm speaking up. People may say I've been too nice and too accomodating up until this point, but I'm speaking my mind when I see this happening to my children.
But he is still oblivious.

H has an annual golf tourney on Friday with all of our best male friends. It's a big thing that my stepdad always went with him to. My stepdad decided not to go this year (even though H did invite him). But all the boys are still going. Including BF's husband (who is also my best friend) and a lot of other people with ill opinions of H right now. I think things may start to come out of the woodwork now as H begins to think more about BF told him about what everyone is saying and thinking about him.
We'll see how it goes.

J~