HI RTL! I haven't posted in FOREVER! but I have been following along. I just wanted to say that your wife's behavior is emotional abuse. If I were you I would consider seeking 100% custody as this behavior is sure to one day be directed to your DD. JMHO.
Also, there is a thread in MLC by Dadnotquitting. I'm not sure if you've read it or not, but he and his wife actually had restraining orders against each other at one time and are now on the road to reconciliation. Try searching for him . . .
Thinking of you! em
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
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