I am a WAW and like others, I did not show my emotions to my H, either. It would have just added more fuel to his anger to be used against me later. But, I am miserable, and it has been/is very hard on me. I still very much love my H, however I have done, warned, and tried to bring the issues we have to my H's attention with much failure. And there doesn't have to be some OM to make this kind of decision happen either.
