Orgasms from H's hand. Although early in our relationship (when there was more fire?) I was interested in oral sex (receiving, not giving), I became less interested in that as our problems deepened.
I'm not sure whether my husband is a "good" lover, as my experience is limited as well. He is willing to try things, and will take direction from me. He can be very passionate. As a novice, and someone who doesn't feel much interest, I'm not entirely sure what makes a "good" lover.
- NM
Also, these days, I pull away from foreplay/heavy petting as well as from intercourse. I'm not sure why.
