I said this calmly as a suggestion and not a criticism but everything I say he takes wrong so I should have probably just shut up and said ok and hung up.
Ugh! I used to get that same thing from my H - every suggestion I made he took as an order. Just me being controlling - or a nag in his words. And he figured he either had to go along with it or it would start a fight. He built up resentment for years over this (because he normally went along with it and never even told me he was annoyed). Then last year, he finally starts talking (well, yelling) about some of this, there I am, going "huh, it was just a suggestion! WTF are you mad about?!?!?!"
Since I have quit making suggestions, he doesn't ask for my opinion, but our interactions are definitely nicer.
(((mishka)))
Honestly, I think anything coming from you is going to be taken the worst way possible by him right now.
I think it would have been better to have S13 call him and ask where he was.
Oh, but definitely nice of him to apologize!
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Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
