Awwww, thanks guys for the ring support! I just got to thinking today that I want H to come home. There's no chance I'd do anything to jeopordise that, so I should wear my ring. End of.
Jeff- no, not too much catching up, although he did kiss me on the cheek when he was saying goodbye. That was a bit of a surprise. And it was nice to see someone who's known me for so long (albeit intermittently). But I don't fancy him....shame- because such a nice guy. Besides, 2 gorgeous men in my life is more than enough- H and the Jeff-meister!
No vicarious living though- I want you guys to get your M's back on track first!!! Then we can all move to piecing together- like a family should.