And you'll never walk alone

[Virtually_Handsome]

I hope you didn't catch up too much!

I took my ring off a couple months ago, at least partly because my finger was getting really fat! I don't know if W has noticed, she hasn't said anything. She hasn't worn her's for years, but she has never liked rings, so I don't think there is anything to that. Now that I am getting smaller, I might be able to put it on, I'm not sure I want to. Hmmm....


((((((Lisa))))))

[mishka422]

I just recently put mine back on. I had taken it off after H left the 3rd time but I am committed to our M and decided that I needed to wear the symbol of that commitment even though he doesn't.

You sound just marvelous Lisa! Good for you! Keep it up and we'll all live vicariously though you!

[One Day]

Awwww, thanks guys for the ring support! I just got to thinking today that I want H to come home. There's no chance I'd do anything to jeopordise that, so I should wear my ring. End of.

Jeff- no, not too much catching up, although he did kiss me on the cheek when he was saying goodbye. That was a bit of a surprise. And it was nice to see someone who's known me for so long (albeit intermittently). But I don't fancy him....shame- because such a nice guy. Besides, 2 gorgeous men in my life is more than enough- H and the Jeff-meister!

No vicarious living though- I want you guys to get your M's back on track first!!! Then we can all move to piecing together- like a family should.

Hurray for the edit button!!!!

[Kalni]

I keep reading this word : vicarious. What does it mean?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

vicarious means feeling as though you have experienced something (an event, emotion, feelings, situation) through someone elses actions.

OD, heya, I seldom check in on you since I always knew you were going to land on your feet.

Wear your wedding ring as long as YOU want to. End of.
But wearing it or not wearing it...shouldn't be a tactic to force an issue with him.

[Kalni]

Thanks Jack.
K

[Kalni]

Lisa,

I had this thought before H left for his trip about putting the ring back on. Come to think of it, I guess that's why I asked him about it on the phone on Sunday. I would like to do it until we say it's over but such a move by me now I think it would feel as pressure or arrogance to him.

Kalni

Good Morning

[One Day]

Hey K,

I know what you mean about it seeming like pressure- it's a tricky decision isn't it? I'm looking at my ring and wondering whether I should have it on, but H has always seen me with it on (apart from when he first moved out, when I removed it in desolation- put it back on after a couple of weeks, and then one other time- about 3 months ago). Apart from that, as far as he knows, I always wear it, so I might aswell always wear it anyway.

I wish he'd put his back on though- that'd be huge for me, if he did, but I guess there's no chance at least until the vegetable is off the scene.

Jack- hello! Always a pleasure, never a chore!! It's great to see you.

Feeling a little subdued today. CEO's asked me twice if I'm OK. I guess I just feel a bit sad thinking about missing the wedding tomorrow. I sent H a text this morning to say that I hope he has a good time and I bet the bride and groom can't wait. No reply, but I don't expect one; he's probably really busy.

((((hugs all))))

L. xx

[MichelleLT]

(((Lisa))) Weddings are boring anyways. The only fun part is the reception, and you can go drink and dance whether you are at the wedding or not.

[Virtually_Handsome]

((((((Lisa))))))

Sorry you are feeling a bit blue. But, the good news is that it's Thursday!