That seems to be a big thing with WASs, I think because they need to come back because they want to, not because of guilt. If there is ever too much pressure, they will forever wonder if they made the right choice. That's why time, space, patience, and no initiating R talks is sooooooo important. IMHO at least. I am certainly no expert, nor a success story...at least yet or in the near future lol.
I think that's right on. Maybe that's why I admire my W's strength. With her health and family junk, it really would be easier to just come back. But I'm realizing I don't want her to do that and wonder about it later.
Maybe you aren't a success story yet, but you definitely win the Most Popular award!
Thanks for the encouragement (((LolaL))) (((MichelleLT)))
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
