I think some of us don't take enough ownership for what did happen.
I have a friend who refuses to see her part in the marriage breakdown, it is one of those very obvious cases...the fact that I saw her doing that, helped me to look inwards and see where I myself had gone wrong in my actions and words.
Like BND said, that does not guarantee the return of our spouse.
What we must do is take it with us and try our best to keep on learning and looking inward.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
