Originally Posted By: jon2911
Easier to see progress from the outside I guess \:\)
Almost always!

Originally Posted By: jon2911
The DBing stuff really seems to be working though. Trying to make it on my own, and appear busy and happy.
Don't forget BEING busy and happy! ;\)

Originally Posted By: jon2911
She said: "well, if you're doing OK the next time I see you, that will mean a lot".
That seems to be a big thing with WASs, I think because they need to come back because they want to, not because of guilt. If there is ever too much pressure, they will forever wonder if they made the right choice. That's why time, space, patience, and no initiating R talks is sooooooo important. IMHO at least. I am certainly no expert, nor a success story...at least yet or in the near future lol.


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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