BH, I agree with H4U. I don't think you need to apologize for anything you've done. He's the guilty one feeling guilty or at least should be. The only thing I can really add is that "friend" of yours that told your H doesn't sound like a friend at all!
Btw, I did find out the OW's email in my case and emailed her about what she had done and how could she sleep at night (I still don't understand how they do that!) and it didn't really make me feel any better about the situation and I really think it just isn't worth it. Eventually our WAS will figure out what kind of person they are, etc. Karen
Karen
